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Toxic Patriarchy Scaring Children
by Ghania Azfar | Published January 1st
Toxic patriarchy has a profound and lasting impact on children's mental and emotional well-being. Growing up in a household where patriarchal values dominate can lead to a multitude of negative consequences, affecting not only girls but also boys. Children learn by observing, and when they witness patriarchal behaviors, they internalize these attitudes. Boys may learn to suppress emotions, adopt aggressive behaviors, and view girls as inferior. Girls, on the other hand, may be socialized to prioritize others' needs over their own, leading to people-pleasing and low self-esteem. The consequences of toxic patriarchy on children's mental health are far-reaching. It can lead to anxiety, depression, and even suicidal tendencies. Children may struggle with emotional regulation, difficulty in forming healthy relationships, and a lack of self-confidence.
Moreover, toxic patriarchy can also affect children's emotional intelligence. When emotions are suppressed or dismissed, children may grow up without learning healthy ways to express and manage their emotions. This can lead to emotional numbness, explosive outbursts, or passive-aggressive behaviors.
Boys may adopt aggressive behaviors and view dominance as a marker of masculinity, leading to issues like bullying and relationship difficulties. Girls may become overly compliant, sacrificing their own needs and desires to meet societal expectations, which can hinder their personal and professional growth.
Children from patriarchal families may struggle with healthy relationship dynamics. Boys might expect to dominate in relationships, while girls might accept subservient roles. This can lead to unhealthy, imbalanced relationships, perpetuating cycles of abuse and control.
Breaking the Cycle
Breaking the cycle of toxic patriarchy requires a deliberate effort. Parents and caregivers must model healthy behaviors, such as emotional expression, empathy, and mutual respect. We must also create spaces for children to express themselves freely, without fear of judgment or retribution.
By acknowledging the harm caused by toxic patriarchy and taking steps to dismantle it, we can raise a generation of emotionally intelligent, confident, and compassionate individuals. This deliberate change fosters a healthier society where children can grow into well-rounded adults, unshackled by the constraints of outdated gender norms and create more just and equitable society for all.
The write is a child psychologist & a parenting expert, writer, yoga teacher. @Mindful.Me by ghania
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